Cody, Oh How I Miss You / Ragen Ringerr (Best Friendsss! (church) )
Cody Wilson,
you werent only my friend but my supplier.. you always helped me with anything and everything, you were here for me when i needed you most and now i need you more than anything. If only you could see everyone now, some have let go but me yeaa im still hangin on. everyday is just a blurr to me, if only you could have realized how much you were loved. I am told each and everyday that this was Gods plan, well honestly God im to fond of this plan. "People" tell me i just need to let it go, and move on but how can a helpless person like me move on when their best friend is gone? The tell me im obsessed well, no not really im just accept the fact that there is no more. i always talk about Cody as if he is still with us, because i dont ever want anyone to forget the man he was. Cody wilson you were my friend, my hero, my protecter, my suplier, my lover, my confidence,, and now all that is all gone. I cant put the days we shared in the pass. i know i will see you again soon cause we shared the love of christ togtether in sunday school class. i will always Love you and will never forget, i never wanna say goodbye cause goodbye means forever and i know i will be seeing you again sooon., i love you Wilson,, rest in peace pumpkin..
Ragenn Ringerr
Does it really have to take on mans death; to realize another mans mistakes?
Shock is a temporary escape from reality / Mom As long as it is temporary, it is good. When the sorrow is overwhelming, we are sometimes temporarily anesthetized in response to a tragic experience. This allows us to absorb the reality of the situation over a period of time. While I may have seemed "strong" during the week following Cody's death...it was literally a state of shock. And at the funeral...I wanted to hear the messages given, so I did not allow myself to think about the reality of the loss of Cody....I focused on the message...as it applied to everyone. But let me say this...as it may help someone else...you have to let the reality set in...slowly but surely. And that is what happens after everyone is gone back to their normal lives. For us, there is no normal. And the periodic reminders are what helps us to process the loss a little at a time. Sometimes I am perfectly fine, other times I truly feel as though my heart will explode. And unless you have experienced this type of loss in your own life, you truly have no idea how difficult it is. So while I may seem "okay", I truly am not. And as I have said to many people along the way...it will never be "okay". And they have said...No, you will never get over this...but you will get through it. I'm still waiting....
It's easy to thank God when he does what we want. But God doesn't always do what we want. Ask Job. His empire collapsed, his children were killed, and what was a healthy body became a rage of boils. From whence came this torrent? From whence will come any help? Job goes straight to God and pleads his case. His head hurts, his body hurts, his heart hurts. And God answers. Not with answers but with questions. An ocean of questions.... After several dozen questions...Job is left on the beach drenched and wide-eyed...He has gotten the point. What is it? The point is this: God owes no one anything. No reasons, No explainations. Nothing. If he gave them, we couldn't understand them. God is God. He knows what He is doing. (Max Lucado...God's Promises for You)
Cody we love you / Amanda Hayden (Friend)
Cody we miss you so much and we love you. Everyday I wish i could go back in time and change what happend. I was going to the dump the other day and I saw the place where the accident was. I fell to my knees and cried. I wished it was me in your place. I think that everyone would rather it be them in your place.
Picture his soul, the essence of man. 'Twas there the day his life began, Sweet and pure from tiny seed, Enriched with love, each kindly deed. It grew each time he stopped to share, To give someone a little care, And let them know in some small way That life's worth living every day. He showed us all, the young and old, The way to heaven's sweet threshold, Then slipped away and left our lives. Yes, the man has gone, but his spirit survives.
already a month.... / Aunt Marsha It's hard to believe it has been a month. Time continues to fly by. Most mornings when I drop my keys in my purse at work, there's your face with that crazy mohawk staring up at me. It makes me smile and I feel like you are smiling down on me and telling me to have a good day. It reminds me of those "mohawk moments" that I call them now. We know that if anything is lost....just check your mommom's purse!
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend, ******************************************* And let me take your hand. ******************************************* I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, ****************************************** Can understand. ****************************************** Let me come in-I would be very still ****************************************** Beside you in your grief; ****************************************** I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend, ****************************************** Tears may bring relief. ****************************************** Let me come in-I would only breathe a prayer. ****************************************** And hold your hand, ****************************************** For I have known a sorrow such as yours, ****************************************** And understand. ******************************************
Cody, you have no idea how much people love and miss you, it is amazing still how much they adore you. We miss you so much, it still seems surreal. I know you are safe in God's hands, and I am sorry that you had to go so soon, but I know you are in a much better place than we are...there is no saddness in Heaven, no anger, no remorse, only love and pure happiness. And although we will never understand God's plan, you were not "ripped off...you were removed"....to a paradise that we will someday know...please know we love and miss you with all our hearts....Love always, Mom
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY / ^KALEL'S^ MOMMY
<3 i miss you / Trisha Comer (close friend )
cody-- i dont know why this happened. god must have had his reasons, i cant say this enough times -- i llove you and you are always in my heart, your always the first thing on my mind. im not going to lie, i wish you would come and take me to hawaii with you, and i was also extremely mad at god. i still am upset but i realize you had better plans. i love you so much. i know i can t do this without you, i dont know how much more i can take. we need you so much cody... i just want a part of you here with me, always.
How a total stranger changed our lives forever / Steve &. Nancy Wallace (You died in Steve's arms ) Cody, We still can't understand why Steve came up on the accident when he did. He was going to go in another direction that day. He saw the dust flying and knew that something was wrong. He was not prepared for what he was about to see. He did know that he had to help you. Pure adreneline made him pick that truck off of you. He called me and asked me what to do. We both knew that you weren't going to make it and I told him to just hug you and not let you die alone. That is what he did. He felt you take your last breath and continued to hold you until the ambulance got there. He was so devistated that he was unable to sleep or eat for several days. Your Mom has helped us get to know you with little stories about you. We were so touched by how many people loved you and the funeral was beautiful. We talk about you every day. We don't understand why some things happen, but God had a plan for all of us that day and we have to trust in Him with His wisdom. However, it doesn't make the pain any easier. We have your picture that Gurn gave us in the livingroom. We hope to remain a part of your family now, but our biggest regret is that we met under such tragic circumstances and that we never got to meet you.
Cody, I sponsored this site thru your friends...forever...so all can continue to come here and speak to you, remember you and honor you...forever...You Are Loved!!
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